Obviously, rejection is one of the worst things. However, it is a matter of fact everyone has to face it at least once in his live. The dating world can be tough, in between being the one who is dating, who is being dated by or rejecting, it is quite challenging to deal with. It is somehow easy to waste time wishing that there was a way to catch someone's eye who just doesn't seem to care, or wants for them to love you as a magic potion which automatically makes them fall in love with you. Nevertheless, being attractive and connected has many elements and it is not always counterfeit. Self-love and self-confidence is a must and instead of trying to change how someone else feels it's the most important that one takes the time to figure out oneself, the authentic self. Therefore we can transcend the emotional barriers erected in the past if we learn to be our real selves and love ourselves too, as this builds a solid basis upon which the kind of relationships we want, whether with the first person or someone unexpected, can blossom.